How Should I Help A Friend?

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Coming back from a stint in a third world country as a guest of Uncle Sam is culture shock in itself. I'd suggest just (consistently) be there as a sounding board and if he wants your help in his situation then he will eventually ask for it. Let him bring up the subject and that will open the door for you.

"I will try to talk with him but he is a proud person." ... listening is more effective than talking