My first shot at tough love.

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Originally Posted by flash

Ray ,that would be a tough situation to deal with .Could you take her in as a Foster Child and get state money to help pay expenses ,thats how it works here sometimes that is if you decided to get her .If not hopefully she will find a good loving forever home with adoptive parents .Best wishes on whatever you decide .

That is what the state is asking us to do is be foster parents for now. The daughter I'm talking about is one of two 3 year old twins I adopted 18 years ago. Been a hard road with these two girls and I have two biology children as well. The other twin has return back to biology family and has decided to break ties with us.

That why Flash my hats is off to you for helping the boys you do.

Ray