My first shot at tough love.

[Ms Grumpy]

Originally Posted by shadowgray396

That is what the state is asking us to do is be foster parents for now. The daughter I'm talking about is one of two 3 year old twins I adopted 18 years ago. Been a hard road with these two girls and I have two biology children as well. The other twin has return back to biology family and has decided to break ties with us.

That why Flash my hats is off to you for helping the boys you do.

Ray

Ray, have you talked to your other children about this ? I would think that their opinion would weigh heavily on a decision to care for this child. It sounds like your decision could even have an impact on your relationship with your adopted daughter. I wish I knew what to tell you, other than to talk, a lot, with your family and listen to your heart.